MARCH 31 v 10 TWELVE STEPPING WITH POWER IN THE PROVERB
STEP 9 - Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
After all the crap you put her through you better do everything you can to make it right. My first wife took off I couldn't blame her I did not like me either. Even after you have sobered up you have to change your entire perspective and attitude. Personally I believe when you have run over someone for so long you lose your respect for them .So now your sober you still put down your wife and take advantage. Men you have to put this in a new perspective she did not stay with you through all the bull because she had no where else to go she stayed because she is the only one in the world that stuck by you when you entire life was coming apart because she loved you . She has more than earned your love and respect , now give it uncodtionally and without limit . Give her steps 5 8 9 and 10 sincerely ! You cant take back all the wrong you did but you can sure as hell make sure you dont ever put her through it again.
Ephesians 5 v 28 - So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.