The WFS Program, most notably Statement #8, have provided the opportunity for understanding life with fresh perspective. In the past, given a set of guidelines to assist with growth only sent me spiraling in the opposite direction. I felt a failure even before starting and so often felt “what’s the use?” or “I’m too far gone.” Understanding growth to be the object of life, I felt an incredible shift in perspective.
An example of growth in my New Life can best be summed up from a recent experience. Flying north for the wedding of my sister last week, upon arrival, I realized the beautiful dress purchased for this blessed event was back in a hotel room. Panic instantly arose, with other distressing emotions coming swiftly, filling my body with anxiety and anger yet, curiously, these feelings didn’t last long. Without warning, a feeling of calm arose with the realization that I could spend the afternoon shopping with the bride to be, my daughter and sister in law. What was an initially, difficult circumstance quickly turned into a delightful opportunity.
Before sobriety and New Life, the reaction would have been intense and dramatic. My victim-stance would have been shared across every social platform while secretly basking in all the attention. Playing on the emotions of others and dragging down the joyous event would have taken high priority (consciously or not). But this did not happen. Instead, I shared in a fun (and silly) shopping excursion with family. Sobriety and Statement #8 in action assisted in developing a different perspective on this wedding weekend. The stark contrast in before and after reactions is evidence of how effective and rewarding Statement #8 can be when practiced and embraced.
Are you aware of growth in your New Life? Priorities?
How does this feel for you?
Hugzzz, Karen
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