Hi 4C Women,
Whenever I think of responsibility, I think of freedom - the freedom to make my own choices, to stand on my own, to express my feelings, cry when I need to and to have hope in my heart. The best part of all of these is that I get to share my life with others who are walking the same path, who are working hard in making similar life-changing choices. I experienced this at the WFS Conference, the NJ WFS meeting I attended and, of course, the meetings I lead in AL. I am grateful to be surrounded all these years by women who accept the challenge of change and responsibility. To witness their personal growth in our meetings is a gift of pure joy. It keeps me uplifted and supports my sobriety.
A few years ago, I wrote about freedom and recovery and how I viewed it then. I'd like to share it with you and hope it will get you to think about your own definition of freedom in recovery:
Freedom to be available when needed
Freedom from lies
Freedom to use my time for learning and healing
Freedom to make choices and to own my mistakes
Freedom to know that any mistake I make will not break me but teach me
Freedom to grow spiritually as I choose
Freedom to make my own path with confidence
What freedoms are you experiencing in sobriety/recovery?
Bonded together in accepting responsibility for ourselves and our actions, a 4C sister