Hi 4C Women,
Living in the moment! I am so fortunate to have grown up in a time when people looked into your face while having a conversation and not looking down at their phones giving a sense of half interest or none at all. I love taking photos and am learning to enjoy the moment and not photograph it to the point that I am missing the moment completely.
I believe Statement #6 is about change in making a "conscious" effort to be aware of our surroundings and our feelings. Think about how many moments have slipped by due to distraction or already moving on to the next task? Creating this awareness is part of the group meeting when we share something positive that happened whether it was a change in our reaction/response or how we felt and how it relates to any one of the 13 Statements. It's important to recognize as well that greatness is also experienced in ordinary moments. It doesn't always need to be a spectacular event or encounter. In recovery, those ordinary moments can feel exhilarating just for the fact that we are feeling them with clarity and joy.
We talk about change in our responses/reactions as they are vitally important in developing our New Life. While creating awareness, I would be remiss if I didn't acknowledge that there are things we want to keep in our lives. Could you imagine if we felt we had to change everything! Last Monday we talked about our positive qualities and to list them. Those are the things we need to keep along with those relationships that nourish us. Change is about enhancing our lives, embracing our accomplishments, handling sobriety with new coping skills and keeping hope in our hearts.
Our group did an exercise a while back about sensory delights. It helped us become more aware, to pause when we smelled, saw, felt, tasted or heard something that brought us joy.
There are 5 questions and each one asks for 5 answers:
1. I love the taste of:
2. I love the sight of:
3. I love the feel of:
4. I love the smell of:
5. I love the sound of:
Bonded in creating greatness, ordinary or extraordinary,
4C WFS Member