Monday, June 1, 2020

💫 Shifting The Alcoholic Identity

Happy Friday everyone! 
It's hard to believe that May has passed us by! This month, in honor of Mental Health Awareness month, we took on one new challenge a week to help improve our lives. If you missed the challenges, you can check each one out below:

Challenge 1: Get Up and Get Moving
Challenge 2: Living In Gratitude
Challenge 3: Benefits of Meditation
Challenge 4: Effective Journaling
Enjoy the rest of this week's highlights!

Recovery Coaching

Even after nine years of sobriety, Chris was fearful that his kids still see him as the "Alcoholic Dad." He must ask himself if it's worth holding onto strained relationships, or if he should begin to set boundaries. Changing our identity and seeing ourselves as something other than what we've been labeled is a process, but self-esteem, feeling worthy, and being seen in a new light is something we all undoubtedly deserve.
I learned so much just from listening back. Check out the replay, here.

Meditation Mondays

Once lost in active addiction, we lost touch with our feelings and our true selves. In early recovery it's crucial to begin to find a safe space to find grounding and stillness. During this week's meditation, we focused on being still in the present moment.
Check out the replay, here.

Roundtable Discussions & Online Meetings

If you've missed out on our morning or evening meetings, you've missed out on a real treat!
No matter if you're a morning or a night person, there's a meeting for you. For all the meeting details, go to the event page, here.

Anniversaries

Timothy Mentone celebrated two years!
Sarah Kimball celebrated 19 months!
Be sure to post you anniversary, here, so that we can celebrate with you!

New Members

Welcome to all of our new members this week! If you're new and haven't introduced yourself, feel free to in the comments below!
CeCe Turner 
Sass Manroe 
David Thurman 
Jen Baird 
Terry Bedell 
Kim French
Diana Hurley 
Chloe E 
karen jones 
Justin Horne 
Przem M 
Krissy Reichardt 
juan lopes 
Robert Crosby 
Vanessa Vega 
Maris Morris 
Tim Letourneau 
Laurie Fox 
W Hill 
kim beckley 
John Desmond 
Heathen Odinson 
Victoria Coco 
Stephanie Shelton 
LaKeisha McCardell 
Jan G 
Michelle Primm 
Chris Powell 
Gena Rees 
Juan Soria 
Alan Evans 
Hannah Snow 
Adam Moir 
Cathryn Bryce 
Derek Duhon 
Marie Williams 
William Paulish 
Holly Gilman 
Shanna Watson 
Sandy Willette 
Cynthia Gaines 
Crystal Vernoy 
Freddy Detres 
Jesse Eric Schmidt 
Rob D 
Erika Elizabeth 
Daniel Haimona 
Laurie Fear 
erin obrien 
Alicia Czaia 
N M 
Cody Thomson 
Jordan Aalyiah 
Sean Maas 
Melinda Rozell 
Tina Cassidy 
Kristina Slinker 
Jay D 
Molly A 
Hunter Bailey 
Teresa Young 
B Glad 
sophie whittle 
Have a safe weekend everyone! And as always, reach out anytime if you need support.
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Help us make a difference for truck drivers around the nation. Thank you to the BlueDEF team for your support and kindness! 

Help Us Reach our High $5 Goal! 

We're only 8 monthly recurring donors away from our goal of 25.

Your donation allows us to continue supporting professional OTR and regional truck drivers with financial assistance when injury or illness takes them off the road.

Our High $5! Program is designed to help us continue Saving Lives and Families, One Driver at a Time. Having reoccurring donations helps non-profits budget for the amount of assistance they will be able to provide. Your $5/month donation may not seem like much, but together we can do so much good!

The St. Christopher Fund has 2 missions:

1. To help over-the-road/regional semi-truck drivers and their families when an illness or injury has recently caused them to be out of work. This assistance is in the form of direct payment to providers for household living expenses such as, rent/mortgage, utilities, vehicle payments and insurance.
2. To provide health and wellness programs for drivers in hopes of preventing some medical illnesses.  Some of these programs include Rigs without Cigs, our smoking cessation program, and free flu, shingles and pneumonia vaccines.
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The St. Christopher Truckers Relief Fund (SCF) helps over-the-road/regional semi-truck drivers and their families who are out of work due to a recent illness or injury. Assistance may be in the form of direct payment to providers for household living expenses, such as rent/mortgage, utilities, vehicle payments, and insurance. The SCF also provides health and wellness programs such as free vaccines and smoking cessation. For more information, visit TruckersFund.org.

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Dr. Chap's Quarantine Journey

Director of Counseling Services, Dr. Debra Thomas Jones, D.MIN.,A.F.S. Psych (affectionately called "Chap") shares her journey as part of the "Quarantine Crew" at The Lovelady Center:
The announcement had been made that morning. Eligible clients and paid staff alike were allowed to choose the best option for their safety and their sanity. A layoff letter was made available for those eligible for unemployment benefits.

Living and working in the same building had been a lifelong dream since employment became a part of my life at age 18. That dream came true for me on the 2nd day of January in 2007, and I have been a resident staff member of TLC since that time. 

So, I wanted to do what was best for the ministry, as well as for myself. Being in the high-risk category due to age and underlying health challenges, I thought staying in my room would be a safe option, but knew it would not necessarily be a sane one. There’s only so much “nothing” you can do. Therefore, I opted to continue working.

With mask and gloves, I transacted bank business on Friday, March 20th from my car, with an actual person, for what turned out to be the last time for more than 60 days. Everyone who was staying with the Loveladies was in for the duration, and the doors were locked.

Then the word came. On Monday, the 23rd, a resident who had left the Center just three days prior, had tested positive for COVID-19 while at the hospital to deliver her baby. Before leaving, she’d had a lot of help moving, used different phones, and had not been observing social distancing rules, otherwise known as hugging people!

Life inside these walls changed. We went into quarantine while in quarantine. “Everyone to your room.” Food, meds, snacks, supplies, and church, all delivered to your door by inside staff.

I worked the front desk, doing my best to correctly answer questions, direct phone calls, and shift USPS, FedEx, UPS, and Amazon Prime to the side entrance to drop off mail and packages.

We worked in the Medical Department one night. That’s all I have to say about that.

Duct Tape was given a new purpose. It was used to mark 6-foot distances all over the building.

One evening at 8 PM, we joined others in our community to “light up the neighborhood” and pray for our nation and the world.

When clients were released to come out of their rooms, we limited the number allowed in the cafeteria to 10 at a time, 6-feet apart.

We celebrated Passover and Resurrection Sunday with holy observance and with tasty food, because we were generously provided for by our precious heavenly Father, and the “ravens” he ordained to feed us.

The visit from outside staff when we waved at them from the top of the parking deck was one of the most delightful experiences of my life and ministry. Oh so precious to see the faces of people I love and miss dearly. It is difficult to describe the emotion of that moment, but trust that it will never be forgotten.

Daily prayer, including Friday’s Zoom call to prayer, were simply a part of life. A time to grow closer to the Lord, and join the world in the Unite714 prayer movement, a global prayer referencing 2 Chronicles 7:14.

Speaking of Zoom, department meetings were infrequent but so anticipated as we looked forward to seeing our Lovelady family, no matter how brief the time.

Things began to shift back in the direction of the familiar when Ms. Brenda came in to do Sunday service for the first time since the quarantine began. We’ve continued moving in that direction with two-week quarantines, including the intake of our precious Supervised Reentry Program girls.

June 1st will be a major turning point for inside staff as we welcome the return of a few fellow laborers in this, the Lord’s vineyard. Still, the camaraderie, fellowship, and love shared among the “Quarantine Crew” cannot be minimized, and will never be forgotten. It has been a genuine honor to serve with each of them, and to minister to our precious clientele during this unprecedented moment in time.
Top Pictures: quarantined staff and clients wave from the parking deck at a large group of visiting staff; visiting staff convey love and support to those inside.

Bottom Pictures: "Light up the Night" prayer vigil; our precious Chap; more visiting staff conveying love and support to those inside.
There are many needs still unmet. Will you help?
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