Sunday, June 7, 2020

Standing in Solidarity

Dear Brave Family...

A Letter from our Founder & Executive Director
Black Lives Matter
Dear Joseph Dickerson,

I stand in solidarity with the Black community, and especially with our Black alumni, colleagues, donors, advisors, and their families. Our organization adds our voices to the chorus condemning racism and proclaiming that Black Lives Matter. I am heartbroken and outraged by the continuous murders of Black people--including George Floyd, Ahmaud Arbery, Breonna Taylor and too many others--often at the hands of police officers. This, coupled with the data that COVID-19 is disproportionately affecting communities of color, has further emphasized the systemic racism and unjust disparities in our country.

I created this organization to provide a platform for those who are often silenced, and I recognize that we need to support and share even more stories from the Black community. As a mental health and storytelling organization, we understand not only the value of telling stories, but also of listening. I commit to amplifying the voices of the Black community as well as those of Indigenous people and People of Color through This Is My Brave, knowing that racism, discrimination, and associated trauma have severe affects on mental health.

I am listening, I hear you, and I stand with you.

We have started where I feel This Is My Brave can have an immediate impact: by shining a light on resources specific to Black mental health. We have updated the resources section of our website to highlight these organizations. This is just a start. If you know of a resource we should be sharing, please email me.

Personally, I know I have a lot of work to do. I have chosen to begin this work by reading How to be an Antiracist by Ibram X. Kendi, and I recommend his work as a great place to start.

This week our team has been working to begin forming partnerships and collaborations with Black mental health organizations, as there is power in our collective energy. We are grateful to have been welcomed by these organizations and I vow to keep you posted on our progress towards equity.

With love and hope,

Jennifer Marshall
Co-Founder & Executive Director
This Is My Brave, Inc.
Mental Health Resources
If you are experiencing trauma, anxiety, or other mental health issues during these stressful and heart-breaking times, there are resources available to you. Please seek help.
Need Help Now?
Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 to connect with a Crisis Counselor at Crisis Text Line.

The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is 1-800-273-TALK (8255).

Take a FREE Mental Health Screening Test: Online screening is one of the quickest and easiest ways to determine whether you are experiencing symptoms of a mental health condition. Get screened.
Mental Health Resources for People of Color
Black Mental Health Alliance provides a trusted forum for culturally-competent mental health programs and services for Black and marginalized communities.

Find an African-American Therapist on Pychology Today.

Inclusive Therapists connects you with therapists in your state/province offering reduced-fee teletherapy.

Therapy for Black Girls is a space developed to present mental health topics in a way that feels more accessible and relevant for Black women.

Sista Afya Community Mental Wellness sustains the mental wellness of Black women through building community, sharing information, and connecting Black women to quality mental wellness services.

Download The Safe Place, a Minority Mental Health App geared towards the Black Community (free on Apple and Android devices)
Additional Resources
Get 1 Month of FREE Therapy with BetterHelp.com: Get matched with a licensed therapist within 24 hours and enjoy one free month of professional online counseling.

Mental Health America: Mental Health And Covid-19 – Information And Resources
 
Find More Mental Health Resources
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We are committed to amplifying and elevating the voices of Black, Indigenous, and People of Color (BIPOC) who have experienced mental illness and/or substance use disorder. We are now accepting blog submissions written or created exclusively by BIPOC to publish during the months of June and July.

Guest bloggers will be compensated for their work. If you are interested in submitting, please email us to learn more about the stories we are seeking to share in our community.
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A Breach Attempt to Our COVID-19 Quarantine Area

Lovelady Center Director, Melinda MeGahee:
"What in the world is going on," I thought, as I tried to figure out who was trying to break into our strict quarantine area. We have been so successful in not breaching that area over the last couple of months since we started bringing ladies back into the program; new and returning. We have welcomed over 100 ladies through this process and not once have we had a breech in the process. As the ladies come in, they spend 7-14 days quarantined to ensure they are virus-free, protecting all women and children currently in the building.

However, the quarantine group that came in this past Wednesday is not our "typical" quarantine group - this is a special group. From the beginning of the coronavirus crisis when we ceased all visits, mothers immediately began asking if their children were going to be able to come be with them this summer. We promised them we would do what we could when we could while still ensuring everyone's safety.

As summer approached, we knew we had to determine a way to get the children in, so we turned one of our intake quarantines into a child quarantine group. Therefore, this past Wednesday, we had 28 mothers and 39 children arrive. Some of those children have been at The Center before visiting their mothers, and with some, neither child nor mother had been here before - it is a well-diversified group.

So Thursday morning when I stared at the locked door that separated the quarantine group from the non-quarantine group, seeing it had obviously been tampered with and had a mis-fit key still hanging in the lock, I was determined to figure out who had done such a thing. Everyone knows dismissal is the consequence for messing with that door. Meanwhile, one of our employees heard one of our "non-quarantined," 5-year old boys cry to his mother, "but they are locked in down there! We have to get them out!"  Getting that clue, and after questioning several of our children, we discovered our non-quarantined children had been trying to "break" the quarantined children out.

I couldn't help but get tickled. Our quarantined children have everything they need: games, water activities, arts & crafts, movies, etc., to have a good time while in quarantine, but our other children did not realize that. With all the riots, racism, hatred going on in our nation today, this sweet act of "heroism" spoke volumes to me. Our children, of different races, doing what they can to "rescue" the other children - of which include different races; their love for one another is untainted. They love strong, not letting anything get in their way (obviously).

It also reminded me of the verse in Matthew that tells us to come like little children; some of us adults could use this lesson from our children! I look forward to the children (and their mothers) getting out of quarantine where they can be with their friends and continue to love like they do. And I look forward to keeping the mission at hand thriving as we all continue to love each other as Jesus called us too. 

Matthew 18:3 And he said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.
*pictures taken prior to the quarantine intake of mothers and children*
Top Pictures: Disinfected recreational areas set up for the children
Bottom Pictures: Warning sign on the quarantine door with the "attempted breach;" additional rec area
Yes! I will help these children and their little heroic friends!
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