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Tuesday, January 12, 2016
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“A negative mind will never give you a positive life.” -Ziad K. Abdelnour
“Every day we have plenty of opportunities to get angry, stressed or offended. But what you’re doing when you indulge these negative emotions is giving something outside yourself power over your happiness. You can choose to not let little things upset you.” -Joel Osteen
“You must not allow yourself to dwell for a single moment on any kind of negative thought.”
-Emmet Fox
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Statement #2, “Negative thoughts destroy only myself.”
My first conscious sober act must be to remove negativity from my life.
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+ Karen’s Perspective +
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At this point in my New Life, I am more apt and ready to recognize negativity within myself and take actions to remedy the situation. I may or may not achieve the desired outcome initially; but, at least I have tried something different (other than drinking at or excessively complaining about) and understand better of what to try next.
What has enabled me to reach this point is ongoing practice of Statement #2. Early on in sobriety, I did not recognize negativity within me; I was so busy trying to find it in others or creating it on my own. As the fog of alcohol in my mind and body dissipated, I saw and felt a much clearer image of myself.
I began to remember instances in my life where my reactions to events actually furthered negativity. It was like I was dragging it along with me as I talked and talked about it but did nothing to resolve it. I asked myself, “Did I like complaining?” No, I really didn’t. It just gave me something to talk about. With Statement #2 in hand, I began to see and feel differently in a short amount of time.
Now that I was becoming aware of my negative thinking, it became easier to identify. Through WFS, I learned different ways to cope. I learned about reframing, I learned about releasing, and began to firmly believe what Jean remarks in our Program Booklet, “So long as we have a single negative thought, we will be kept from anything very positive happening to us.”
In Goodbye Hangovers, Hello Life, Jean states, “Removing negative reactions from our lives is tough. Old patterns and inclinations are hard to deal with. They resist new ideas, new methods. Only our persistent desire to have a successful recovery from the devastation of alcoholism can give us the drive to overcome negativism. To do it requires constant vigilance. I find that there are still times, even now after twelve years of sobriety, I still fall into the trap of ‘It can’t be done’ or ‘What’s the use?’ Of course, I no longer think of counteracting with a drinking episode, but sometimes I still have negative reactions, and I have to be on guard against them.”
As we settle into this New Year, I invite you to review the past year and assess your journey. Hugzzz, Karen
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Hi 4C Women, Statement #2 became a lifesaver for me. I did not realize just how negative I was until I stopped drinking and began practicing the WFS program. What a wakeup call!
When I think back to my first few years of moderating a group, I realized that I was looking at my old self at times and felt hopeful for the women who struggled with negativity. After all, if I could use the WFS program to turn my thinking around, I felt confident that others could as well. However, I want everyone reading this message to remember to practice patience with themselves, and with others, when it comes to putting Statement #2 into action. I was projecting my own journey and timeframe and wanted each woman to change exactly the way I did. If you have incorporated it into your thinking, be careful not to judge others, as I began to do, who are still in the process.
On the other hand, if the negativity from others is becoming a toxic situation, then you need to rethink if the relationship is healthy for your recovery. It seems such a fine line at times. I just know that when a negative thought pops into my mind today, I have learned to evaluate where the thought came from and consider my healthy options. It also helps to discuss my options with others I trust and to know the difference between a negative thought and a situation that truly requires attention. I have learned that what may have been complaining in the past is now an honest observation and that helps me determine how I need to move forward.
I love Karen’s questions and hope that you will take the time to answer them and learn a lot more about yourself and where you are at on this recovery journey. -Dee
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Thank you, Karen and Dee, for your words of encouragement and inspiration to start off our week! ~Becky Fenner, WFS Director
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Dear Joseph, Snowflakes and ice skating. Hot chocolate by the fire. Joyful families travelling near and far to be together. These are the images you see everywhere during this time of year. But for families struggling with a loved one’s substance use, the holidays can be very challenging: worry about a kid out on the street; fear that a wrong word will spark an argument; judgment and isolation from neighbors, family and friends. The Partnership for Drug-Free Kids helps these struggling families. Our Helpline at 1-855-DRUGFREE takes dozens of calls every week – more than 2,200 this year alone. Families of 16-year-olds who just found a bottle of pills in their kid’s backpack; or of 18-year-olds on their fifth stay in rehab who don’t know where to turn next; or of 21-year-olds who worry that this New Year will be the last one their daughter will see. Please make a tax-deductible gift to the Partnership for Drug-Free Kids today, so that we can answer more calls during the holidays and throughout the year. No one is rushed off the line. Callers receive support, recommendations and, above all, kindness at a time and place in their lives when kindness is rare. These services are offered to parents and caregivers for FREE. But so many more families need help! Your support can maintain the Helpline in 2016. Each hour that the Helpline operates costs us $140. Will you donate the cost of one hour? Or 30 minutes for $70? Or 15 minutes for $35? Please spread the word by sharing this email with your network. Let all your friends and family know that help is available, and just a phone call away at 1-855-DRUGFREE. Thank you for your support! Sincerely, Kevin Collins, Director, Community Support Services P.S. Your donation will go even farther today! Thanks to one of our generous board members; any gift you make by year-end will be matched, dollar-for-dollar, up to $25,000. That means your donation will have twice the impact! | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Dear Joseph, As the year comes to a rapid close, I hope you will consider giving a tax-deductible gift to the Partnership for Drug-Free Kids today. Substance abuse crosses all social and economic boundaries, yet few recognize its far and devastating reach. Whether you’re poor or rich, male or female, young or old – chances are you have been affected by substance abuse and addiction. We are working at every level to prevent more lives from being affected by this deadly illness: educating prescribers, teachers and community leaders about its dangers; helping teens to better handle their stress and remain above the influence of drugs and alcohol; coaching parents to communicate better with their kids with an alternative to the tough-love approach. And despite inadequate federal funding for substance abuse prevention – we are giving communities the tools they need to help end the prescription drug abuse and heroin epidemic plaguing our nation. The time is NOW. We are changing the perception of addiction in this country and creating a movement which includes robust solutions to end this public health crisis. This is an investment in our children’s futures. Many studies have shown that for every dollar we spend on preventing and treating addiction, we save between $4 to $7 in healthcare and other costs. Will you invest in us? Please make a tax-deductible donation to the Partnership right now to ensure that all families get the help they need to prevent and address teen substance abuse and addiction. Thank you for your support. Have a healthy, happy and safe new year. Sincerely, Marcia Lee Taylor President and CEO P.S. Your investment will go even farther today! Donate before midnighttonight, and thanks to a generous board member, your gift will be matched dollar-for-dollar up to $25,000! | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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