APRIL 5 v 7 TWELVE STEPPING WITH POWER IN THE PROVERB

A proverb in the mouth of a fool

is as useless as a paralyzed leg.

STEP 1 - We admitted we were powerless over our addictions—that our lives had become unmanageable. 

Unfortunately that is what I was and can still be at times. It is human nature to think you have all the answers to life. Reading Gods Big book and working the steps on a daily basis will keep the foolishness to a minimum . Step one says we are powerless over addictions ,I struggle with that because it is not your DOC that has control , it is the fool inside all of us that you powerless against. You have to call him out and recognize that he has gotten control of you .The only way you defeat him is asking God for help (step one ). The fool inside has many names PRIDE ,ANGER ,SHAME ,GUILT ,FEAR ,RESENTMENT, and the list goes on . Once you call out and recognize the fool inside he will begin to lose his grip on your life . Your DOC is the byproduct of the damage being caused by that fool inside who is calling the shots in your life. As long as he is in charge you will never reach your destiny.

Psalms 14 ; 1 The fool has said in his heart, There is no God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that does good.

Joseph Dickerson

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Hip Hop and Sobriety: No Dope is Dope

A few big hip hop stars are swimming against the tsunami of pro-dope lyrics and artist lifestyles, seeking to make it "dope" (cool) to follow their lead. 

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By Cameron Turner

“Something 'bout Mary she gone off that Molly/Now the whole party is melted like Dalí.” 

That’s how Kanye West celebrates crystallized MDMA, the party drug du jour, on his song, "Mercy."

2 Chainz has similar praise for the ecstasy-esque drug on Nicki Minaj’s "Beez In The Trap" wherein he rhymes: “Got your girl on molly and we smokin' loud and drinkin'/ Got my top back so you can see what I been thinkin'." And Rihanna’s chart-busting anthem "Diamonds," applauds both molly and booze while summing up the myth of invincibility that drives devotees of the indulgent rock star lifestyle. With blinders firmly in place, Ri Ri boasts

Palms rise to the universe

As we moonshine and molly 

Feel the warmth, we’ll never die

We’re like diamonds in the sky

Of course people do die from substance abuse. But despite the long and tragic roster of creative people whose careers and lives have disintegrated due to dope and alcohol abuse, drugs of every description remain a celebrated and definitive feature of entertainment culture. But a few high profile hip hop artists are swimming against the tsunami of social acceptance. By going public about their sober lifestyles, performers like Joe Budden, Kendrick Lamar, Kid Cudi, and quadruple Grammy winner Macklemore aren’t merely telling their personal stories of survival—they’re also trying to change the culture by urging others in the hip hop nation to stay out of the substance trap.

That experience is not only messing up lives, its also diluting the originality of hip hop.

Joe Budden doesn’t think molly is cute. The rapper and reality show star blew 12-plus years of sobriety by messing with MDMA and he almost ran his life into a ditch. Budden spoke about his relapse with molly on VH1’s Love & Hip Hop: New York, and he opened up further during a TV news interview last year. The Shady Records emcee told Fox 5 News: “I didn’t see a problem with the fact that maybe five days would go by without sleeping. I didn’t see a problem with the fact that maybe I was hallucinating at times. I didn’t see a problem with the fact that I just couldn’t get up and walk sometimes. It just altered your thinking process dramatically, and for a thinker like myself, that was like nothing I’d ever experienced before.” That experience is not only messing up lives, its also diluting the originality of hip hop. So says Kendrick Lamar who closed his video for “B**ch, Don’t Kill My Vibe” with the slogan “Death to molly.” The breakout West Coast rapper then told Rolling Stone that, "When everybody consciously now uses this term or this phrase and putting it in lyrics, it waters the culture down."

Kendrick Lamar got scared straight early in life. As a child the Compton, California emcee saw enough alcohol abuse among his parents and their friends to know that he wanted no part of that hard partying lifestyle. Appearing on The Arsenio Hall Show last September, Lamar explained, "My parents are fairly young so I actually grew up with 'em and I was in the house when they partied and had fun. I seen the different vices that was in the house.” Watching all that liquor flow when he was a kid, then seeing his teenage peers binge left and right led Lamar to create his huge debut single, “Swimming Pools (Drank),” wherein he rhymes about finding the inner strength to resist pressure to "get a swimming pool full of liquor, then you dive in it." 

Verse two of the track has Kendrick being confronted by his conscience which tells him, “…if you do not hear me, then you will be history, I know that you're nauseous right now and I'm hopin' to lead you to victory.” Kendrick decides, “If I take another one down, I'ma drown in some poison, abusin' my limit.” Breaking the song down to Arsenio, Lamar explained, “I wanted to actually have it where I put it in the air where you can be a drinker who's aware or you can be an alcoholic…I was having fun but at the same time it was a message.” 

Like the peer-pressuring antagonists of Kendrick Lamar's song, Kid Cudi knows what it's like to dive into pools of booze. He had quit cocaine long before and when his doctor told him that liquor had enlarged his liver, Cudi knew he had to stop drinking as well. He sobered up before his last tour and he disproved a myth in the process. Drug and alcohol abusing artists have claimed for generations that being on something enhances their creativity. But being on the road substance free actually freed up Kid Cudi's creativity. He told Complex magazine, “I was sober from alcohol and the whole show benefited from that—the energy and everything. I was the happiest I had ever been on tour.”

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